Grace means more than gifts. In grace something is transcended, once and for all overcome. Grace happens in spite of something; it happens in spite of separateness and estrangement. Grace means that life is once again amalgamated with life, self is reconciled with self. Grace means accepting the abandoned one. Grace transforms fate into a meaningful craft. It transforms remorse to trust and courage. The word grace has incredible triumphant in it.
Thursday, January 20, 2011
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
4 WIFES!!!!!!!!!!! in life......
There was a rich merchant, he had 4 wifes…
The 4th wife…was the one whome the mercahant loved the most….alwyz use to adorn her with gems and jewelleries and treated her to delicacies..he took great care of her and gave her nothng but the best among the rest…
The 3rd wife….was the one also to whome merchant loved but a bit less than the 4th one ..he was very proud of her and considered her a status symbol..flaunting her every now and then and alwyz use to show her off to his friends…but the merchant alwyz had a fear that he will leve him and go with some other person…
The 2nd wife….she too was loved by the merchant..she is very considerate person alwayz patient and infact is the merchant’s confidante.whenever the merchant faced some problems,he alwyz turned to his second wife and she would alwyzhelo him out and tide him through difficult times..
Now the merchants first wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaing his wealth and business as well as household too.however the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply,she hardly took notice of her.
One day the merchant fell very ill ..he was about to die ..he thout of his luxurious life and told himself “that now I have 4 wifes..but when I will die..ill b lonely..no one will be with me”
He in a positive hope man went to his 4th wife and asked her..”I loved you the most endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over
you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!"
replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word. The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart.
The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all
my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?"
"No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry
when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.
He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've
always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow
me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied
the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The
answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.
Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you
go." The merchant looked up and there was his 1st wife. She was so skinny,
almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the
merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could
have !"
Actually we all have 4 wives in our lives,..
The 4th wife is :-OUR BODY
No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave
us when we die.
The 3rd wife is :- OUR POSSESSION ,STATUS AND WEALTH
When we die ,they’ll go to to others.
The 2nd wife is :- OUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS
No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
The 1st wife is :- IS OUR SOUL…which is unseen
Often neglected in our pursuit of material wealth and sensual pleasure. It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go. Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate and strengthen it now rather than to wait until we're on our death bed to lament.
Friday, January 14, 2011
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Life Is about CORRECTING MISTAKES!!!!!!!!!!
A Real life incident ..........was overwhelming.......thot u people wud appreciate reading it..and try to implement in your life..to make it special in itself....!!!!!!!!!!!!
Monica married Hitesh this day. At the end of the wedding party,
Monica's mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook.
With Rs.1000 deposit amount.
Monica's mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook.
With Rs.1000 deposit amount.
Mother: 'Monica, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your marriage
life. When there's something happy and memorable happened in your new
life, put some money in. Write down what it's about next to the line. The
more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in.. I've done the
first one for you today. Do the others with Hitesh.When you look back
after years, you can know how much happiness you've had.'
Monica shared this with Hitesh when getting home. They both thought it
was a great idea and were anxious to know when the second deposit can be
made.
life. When there's something happy and memorable happened in your new
life, put some money in. Write down what it's about next to the line. The
more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in.. I've done the
first one for you today. Do the others with Hitesh.When you look back
after years, you can know how much happiness you've had.'
Monica shared this with Hitesh when getting home. They both thought it
was a great idea and were anxious to know when the second deposit can be
made.

This was what they did after certain time:
- 7 Feb: Rs.100, first birthday celebration for Hitesh after marriage
- 1 Mar: Rs.300, salary raise for Monica
- 20 Mar: Rs.200, vacation trip to Bali
- 15 Apr: Rs.2000, Monica got pregnant
- 1 Jun: Rs.1000, Hitesh got promoted
..... and so on...
However, after years, they started fighting and arguing for trivial
things. They didn't talk much. They regretted that they had married the
most nasty people in the world.... no more love....Kind of typical
nowadays, huh?
Mother: 'Sure, girl, that's no big deal. Just do whatever you want if you
really can't stand it. But before that, do one thing first. Remember the
saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money and
spend it first. You shouldn't keep any record of such a poor marriage.'
Monica thought it was true. So she went to the bank, waiting at the queue
and planning to cancel the account.
While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked,
and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joy and
happiness just came up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with tears. She
left and went home.
When she was home, she handed the passbook to Hitesh, asked him to spend
the money before getting divorce.
The next day, Hitesh gave the passbook back to Monica. She found a new
deposit of Rs.5000. And a line next to the record: 'This is the day I
notice how much I've loved you thru out all these years. How much happiness
you've brought me.'
They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back to the safe..
Do you know how much money they had saved when they retired? I did not
ask. I believe the money did not matter any more after they had gone thru
all the good years in their life.
"When you fall, in any way, Don't see the place where you fell, Instead see the place from where you
slipped.
these small instances happens in everyone's life....but its on us how we dun't loose hope and work towards it...how we try to get control over things and try to sort out..rather than committing one mistake after the other...!!!!!!..
Life is one and make it worthwhile so that when u look into the past you should find happiness in small little things....!!!!!!!!!!.
Dedicated to all married people...... .CHEERS!!!
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
James Blunt - You're Beautiful (Live at the BBC)
My life is brilliant.
My love is pure.
I saw an angel.
Of that I'm sure.
She smiled at me on the subway.
She was with another man.
But I won't lose no sleep on that,
'Cause I've got a plan.
You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
I saw your face in a crowded place,
And I don't know what to do,
'Cause I'll never be with you.
Yeah, she caught my eye,
As we walked on by.
She could see from my face that I was,
Fucking high,(Real version)
[From: http://www.elyrics.net/read/j/james-blunt-lyrics/you_re-beautiful-lyrics.html ]
Flying high,(clean version)
And I don't think that I'll see her again,
But we shared a moment that will last till the end.
You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
I saw your face in a crowded place,
And I don't know what to do,
'Cause I'll never be with you.
You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
There must be an angel with a smile on her face,
When she thought up that I should be with you.
But it's time to face the truth,
I will never be with you.
My love is pure.
I saw an angel.
Of that I'm sure.
She smiled at me on the subway.
She was with another man.
But I won't lose no sleep on that,
'Cause I've got a plan.
You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
I saw your face in a crowded place,
And I don't know what to do,
'Cause I'll never be with you.
Yeah, she caught my eye,
As we walked on by.
She could see from my face that I was,
Fucking high,(Real version)
[From: http://www.elyrics.net/read/j/james-blunt-lyrics/you_re-beautiful-lyrics.html ]
Flying high,(clean version)
And I don't think that I'll see her again,
But we shared a moment that will last till the end.
You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
I saw your face in a crowded place,
And I don't know what to do,
'Cause I'll never be with you.
You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
There must be an angel with a smile on her face,
When she thought up that I should be with you.
But it's time to face the truth,
I will never be with you.
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