WHATEVER HAPPENS ...HAPPENS FOR GOOD...!!!! LIFE AND ITS COLOURS...

A BEAUTIFUL ARTICLE WRITTEN BY SOMEONE UNKNOWN..REALLY TOUCHED MY HEART.....WANTED TO SHARE WITH YOU ALL...

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were ment to be there…..

Thery serve some sort of purpose ,teach you a lesson,cheat you  or help figure out who you are and who you want to become.

You never know these people may be your roommates ,your best of friends,your life partner ,professor,long lost friend,lover or even a complete stranger who,when you lock eyes with them you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way….may be even if you want then also you cannot ignore that person because destiny has written that person to be a part of your life..no matter how hard you try to keep yourself away from them……

And sometimes things happen to you and at times  they seem horrible ,painful and unfair but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never have realized your potential ,strength and will power of heart.

Being generous is not  a bad characterstic but being generous to cowards is the worst misake that one does..but  this itself is a lesson not only for you but also for the other person who holds the position of coward…

Everything happens for a reason, nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck…illness ,injury ,love,lost moments or true greatness and sheer stupidity all occurs to test the limits of soul…..

The worst part with this is…because of one person’s deed the whole family suffers  ,or some one close to that person suffers. Knowingly and unknowingly god gives back everything in same form or some other form to the person. Inshort we are liable of our own Karma.

JUST A TEST FOR YOURSELF….READ THE WHOLE PARAGRAPH FIRST AND THEN FOLLOW WHATEVER IS WRITTEN IN THIS……

“now gradually close your eyes…..

Ponder over what  all wrong you have done in life…of all the negative things you have hidden from your family,friends ….of the fights that you have had ,of the lies that you have said…of the feelings that you have played with, of the disrepect that you have showed, of the cowardness that you have showed to the ones who actully loved and cared for you. Now think about those people who were associated with you in some way or the other and how you actually affected them with the negativity of yours. Imagine one person at a  time who loved you die hartedly and how have you hurted that person... Now think about your present state…the present happenings around you,think about all the negativity around you ,how is your life , being affected by these things and then just try to associate the negative deeds that you did before and the present suffering you have. Ponder over it…  the answer about your problems will be in front of your eyes………”

Without these small test ,if they be events,illness or relationships,life would be like a smooth paved ,straight ,flat road to no where..safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet in you life time ,who affect your life in some way or the other  and successes and downfalls you experience in your life  ,they are the ones who create “who you are”..even the bad expereince can be learned from them…and those lessons are the hardest  and probabbly the most important ones in life…………

If someone hurts you,betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them …for they have helped you to learn about trust and imporatance of being cautious to whome you open your heart….they are in turn teaching you a lesson and unknowingly falling prey  over  their  deeds….a simple way to handle those people is  - just sit back and relax coz on your part it’s the honestly and god is watching it….

And

If someone loves you,love them back unconditionally ,not only because they love you but because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes,to things you would have never seen ao felt without them….if someone loves you,feel your self lucky to be loved ,coz rare of the rarest people get an opportunity to be loved unconditonally by true people….

Make everyday count ,appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possible can,for you may never be able to experience it again..and never ever try to play with others life…coz then your life will start playing with you …..

Talk to people you have never talked to before and actully listen ,let yourself fall in love ,breakfree and set your sights high,You can make your life anything you  wish….a bed of roses or the life of thorns…create your own life and then go out and live it…be masters of your own life…and also the sufferes by doing wrong.

I wish you all the best in your  endeavours as well as struggles in life..have a fighting spirit and never hesitate to get back in the struggle….


Writer unknown........:)